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Grill Advice (Seriously)

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Hello fellas

Let’s get into this with some context.

**I have very monogamous morals, and belive that the person you choose to have sex with should be the person you spend your life with**

Ive been dating this girl for around a year, and before that we were best friend for like 8 months. Basically our lives are super intwined with each other.

She had a problem with flirting and still associating with guys who ask for nudes and so forth. Eventually that lead to an event back in June where I caught her full on sexting with some guys a few hours away. She said it was nothing and claimed it “was because I didn’t give her enough affection”

Fine, I looked past that and kept dating her. She agreed it wouldn’t happen again

We’ve set rules that during breaks, we wouldn’t do anything with other people and still act as if we’re in a monogamous relationship

 

Around a month ago we took a break, she went to a different city during that time but we still had constant contact. Once she got back we agreed we wouldn’t want any more shenanigans and put the past behind us. I gave her an opportunity to tell me if she’s done anything with people, I asked a few times and she said no.

Cut forward to last night, she got into a fight with a close friend in our group chat, the close friend stated “so that’s why you cheated on Calvin in (city name)*

She denied it, so I belivied her, until I pushed a little bit. She later admitted to playing “spin the bottle”. I called bullshit on that’s all that happened. She then confessed saying she drove the guy (who she sexted with in June) home, he asked to touch and play with her tits, that happened and that about really all I know of the situation. Once again she says she regrets it.

Second offence, she sent nudes during this break to a guy I’ve had full of fist fights with before, and who she “thinks is disgusting”. 

During this whole situation she caught herself on multiple lies trying to tell me nothing happened until she cracked, said nothing else happened then turns out more things happened.

i don’t know what to do, I’ve invested a lot into this relationship, like a lot.

TL;DR - Girlfriend sexted with guys back in June. Forgave her. During a break (with context of still being monogamous) she let one of the guys she sexted with play with her tits and I assume other things. She lied about it multiple times until she cracked.

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You need to find yourself a new gf. As you say, you've invested a lot... and I'm sure it's hard to imagine walking away after you put so much into it. However, everything you stated shows she truly isn't that concerned about your feelings and where you fit in to her little game. She wants to fuck around with other guys, so let her, but don't let yourself think that it's your fault and something you've caused her to do. No matter how much more affection you give her, it won't be enough. If she's lying to you so much now, you really have no way of trusting her in the future, as she's shown what she is capable of and will only admit to lies when you learn the truth yourself.

 Go be free dude!! Find new friends and maybe a new gf through that! Don't put up with this shit, there are many more girls out there that would be better than this! 

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I agree with Tater, She has lied other times so you should just drop her so she doesn't have anymore room to lie and maybe even learn a lesson from it. Don't include people into your life who cause negative thinking or make you think less of yourself.

Not much you can do besides leave her so she doesn't think she can get away with cheating and so on.

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She's not going to stop cheating on your bro. The big hint is that she has already done it multiple times and continued to do it even after you found out. I think the bigger question here is how long are you gonna let her get away with cheating till you've finally had enough? There are plenty of woman and girls who aren't like that and it may seem really hard to call it quits here but you have to. Because can you honestly say you're happy with a girl who you know has lied and cheated on you multiple times and probably still is? 

You deserve a person who is fully devoted to being with you and only you while being in a relationship with you. Not the kind of girl who justifies her cheating on you by blaming you for it. That's toxic behavior and will only get worse the longer the relationship goes on.

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yeah just break up with her. its clearly obvious shes going to keep cheating on you n shit. if u want my boy pussy is available til @DmMeToePics takes it 

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Do i need to drive up an save my boy survivor 😤

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no need to question really. Cheated on you twice. Once a cheater always a cheater. Ditch this thot

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Area code rule: if it’s in a different area code it isn’t cheating

nah but seriously fuck that bitch and find someone else, dubb on her lmao 

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listen ima say this one time. if you ever find your bf/gf cheated or anything in that sort once never go back with that person again cause it will happen again no matter what its like a %90 chance. my dawg get you a new girl and get over your current situation with this chick. with that new girl show her what shes missing but dont brag about it to her just post about your new girl on social media and you know regular gf/bf shit and watch how she would hit you back up. did this many times trust me i know. 

i do it a lot on snapchat cause what i do is block everyone off my story except that one chick and watch how the messages about missing you raining in and you better no go back with her, start acting like you dont care and really dont even care at all. she goin to die inside.

dump her before she dumps you.

overall doing better in life = bitches crawl back to you. its a fact.

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coupled with all the lying, she exceeds 3 strikes, get her out of your life, she's a snake, you don't wanna be a victim of a snake

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i saw (serious) in the title and was expecting a conversation about grills

 

but its just about women *spit*

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Okay so what i'm reading. I'm saying maybe find a new girlfriend or just stay single, Let this girl go. Shes done to many things to hurt you and play with your feelings towards her. You never know, If she cheated once after saying she wouldn't. And LIED to you about it, There's a chance she might go and do it again. So if  i were you, Id drop her. I know you guys have been through a lot. But love hurts sometimes, And sometimes you have to let the ones you love go.

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nigga u need fresh pussy

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